Bella Bare Talks with Captain Jack
Let me start by introducing Bella by saying she is a very sweet person. We had never talked before (except for a couple of DM’s on Twitter) and when we started talking on the phone, we talked for 10 minutes as though we had been friends for 20 years! As for the interview itself, Bella has a very interesting back story and is having the time of her life. I hope you learn something about her here!
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Captain Jack: Tell me about Bella Bare.
Bella: I’m from California originally. I joined the air force and did 4 years active duty which is where I met my husband. The military paid for me to go to nursing school. We got married after knowing each other for just a few months, that’s how it is sometimes in the military, trying to get stationed together. I got into nursing school, finished, had kids, we owned a business for a little bit, a coffee shop. He’s medical too and we were with the church for a little bit. That was an interesting experience and we walked away for different reasons. He almost died from Covid in 2021. Florida was like New York the summer of ’21 when that other variant came out. He was in bed for 8 weeks. He came out 15 pounds lighter with a beard.
He introduced me to lifestyle, not that I knew that’s what he was introducing me too. We went to a party and he didn’t tell me all the details because he knows I’d say, ‘Hell, no. We’re not doing that! We ended up at a lifestyle resort in Tampa and had the best times of our lives. I found out that night I was bi, very bi apparently, and had the freedom to explore that. And little by little, just chipping away at what we think the norms should be. Monogamy is the way, when you’re an adult you should behave…it’s just so funny that we’re so brainwashed and indoctrinated as to what the right way to live is. So, we just started doing lifestyle experiences together, with couples and he enjoyed seeing me with single males and I enjoyed doing that so it was kind of a win/win. It’s really strange when you start doing this. At the time, we had been married 28 years, totally monogamous. Totally monogamous. We were both military so we were both sluts before that. (laughs) When we met, we said ‘I do’ and we were faithful and that was it. But he knew we could be happier; he knew there was more. #3 was about to leave the house and sometimes when kids leave, women are like, ‘Now what? What do I do?’ I lost my identity and he was worried about that. So, we started having really super cool fun, crazy lifestyle experiences. Some were good, some were weird, some we are still very dear friends with. We met some content creators and they encouraged us to do this, they said we’d kill it in the MILF category. Hubby was all about it and thought it’d be fun. In the first 3 months, we skyrocketed! We just kept going with it and treated it like a business. That’s how we got to where we are now.
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CJ: How did your husband know you’d be into it?
Bella: Deep down, he knows me. He probably knows me better than I know myself. When we were in the military, we were both wild and crazy, anything went. When we started dating, we didn’t involve other people but he had plenty of crazy experiences with people before that. Originally, when he said it was an adult party, I just thought a party with no kids. And then he shows me my costume and it was head-to-toe spandex, it was an alien theme. So, I had no clue. Although he had light-up pasties and he told me to wear them under my spandex. We pull up to this resort and there were naked people. It was also a nudist resort and I’m thinking, ‘What the hell?’ He had a smile on his face and he was real quiet. He just knew if we proceeded cautiously and we kept communication open and we were honestly engaged, it could be a really fun thing.
CJ: At the party, did you get with some women that night?
Bella: Yes. It was so freakin’ hot in the club that, within the hour, I was in boots, my bikini bottoms and some pasties. We were with a group of people. We met one couple at the hotel and they knew 2 other couples who knew 2 other couples and everyone was super attractive, extremely friendly, super energetic, the vibe was something I had never experienced. You’re dancing, you’re drinking and you’re caught up in those carefree feelings that you can do literally whatever you want! There were no rules! That night, I was all about the ladies. There was a lot of kissing and undressing each other in the club. I didn’t do anything with any guys. He even teased me because beforehand, I told him that I’d just play with the females, I don’t think I need any guys then, of course, two weeks later I was with another guy. Your ‘do not list’ turns into your bucket list. (laughs) So, stop putting limitations on yourself.
CJ: So, the guy two weeks later. You met him at a bar. Were you nervous? Walk me through that.
Bella: The very first experience was October at a Halloween party at a lifestyle resort. Then, the next lifestyle experience we ended up at a Christmas party. When we walked in, there was this beautiful young black girl with a buff white guy. I went up to her and told her she was stunning. We introduced ourselves and there was a 4-way mutual interest right away. I still wasn’t comfortable with doing stuff with guys just yet. It was my first time going down on a girl and she squirted all over the dance floor. They still have pictures of this on their website. Then we started talking about lifestyle experiences. Then our third experience, we ended up in a playroom with 3 other people that were in their 20s and I had the time of my life. It was super fun.
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CJ: You said you’ve been married for 28 years, can I ask how old you are?
Bella: I’m 53.
CJ: Before you met your husband, you said you were a little wild and crazy. Were you a little slutty?
Bella: Yes. It’s so funny because I only had 4 or 5 serious boyfriend. I’ve always loved sex and have always been sexually active and, to me, even as a younger female, 15, 16, it wasn’t love, it wasn’t emotions; it was just something physical, just something fun. I very much enjoyed and appreciated one night stands and that’s how I did things other than those 4 or 5 boyfriends. It was just all about the fun. Just physical activity, there didn’t have to be a connection. I lost my virginity at 15 and it was with somebody that none of my friends knew and that’s when Pandora’s Box opened. Then, I started dating older guys and so I was a slut but none of my friends knew it. In school, I was a good girl, I was a cheerleader, did what I was supposed to do and I kept my sex life secret because girls aren’t supposed to do that! Guys are and guys are cool if they do that but girls are sluts and everyone hates them if they do it.
CJ: Then you went into the military. Did you serve overseas?
Bella: I did, yes. I literally went to Desert Storm. I was in Turkey for a year and a half where the ratio of men to women was 30 to 1. (laughs) Then, when things got really heated, they deployed back all the dependent’s and the dependent’s wives so it was really only active duty people which made the ratio even worse. I had a blast, it was fun. It was stressful a little bit but I knew how to relieve the stress.
CJ: I know how the military is, you’re not supposed to fraternize but I assume you fucked a lot.
Bella: Yes, pretty much. What’s really funny is I was enlisted and they don’t preach to the officer’s that the enlisted are forbidden fruit but they really drilled it into our heads. When it comes to that, you want what you want and then you go for it. We made our own rules during that time. (laughs)
CJ: You became a nurse and lived your life, why did you decide to get into professional porn?
Bella: Most of these lifestyle experiences, we were videoing them anyways and we would play it back and watch it when we had sex. It would get us going and it would be fun to watch. It was a turn-on for us to watch back the things we were doing with other couples. Then, when he would set me up with single males, he would video it too and we would have that to watch back. In a way, we were doing it anyways, people were saying it was hot and we should sell it, why don’t we give it a try and see? It’ll go one of two ways. It’ll either work and it’ll be fun and make money. I’ll be flat honest with you, I literally thought we would do it a month or two and be fun, high five each other and say, ‘that was fun! Another chapter in our book, now what?’ In July, it’ll have been 2 years since we started shooting content.
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CJ: Who was your first professional scene for?
Bella: Coxx Models. He’s out of Tampa. An amazing guy and it was a good time!
CJ: What’s your favorite position?
Bella: I love riding but I also love doggie.
CJ: Do you prefer working with people your age and older or do you like the younger people in the industry?
Bella: It’s funny because honestly, it’s not an age thing. It’s a personality thing; it’s an energy thing. I’ve had guys my age that act like they’re 15 and I’ve had guys that are 25 that are wise souls, know how to handle me and know how to use what they got. But I’ve also had young guys that think sex is just hammering me. For some that is, that’ s not my brand. I have to tell them to relax and let’s have some fun.
CJ: What do you like sexually? What gets Bella wet?
Bella: I’m very auditory so I love being talked dirty to. Now, don’t slap me in the face and call me names. There is a line. I can get rough and I can get dirty and I don’t mind being choked. Things can be taken to a degree where they could have dialed it back 3 notches and it would have been a turn-on but now they went past that. I love dirty talk, I’m very auditory. But I also love passionate kissing so it’s really funny. I went to do a scene with a guy and it was at an amateur studio in Tampa. It was me and 2 guys and one guy I knew and the other guy I didn’t. So, I was trying to engage with him and bond with him before we were actually having sex and my way to do that is to just start kissing. He pulled back and said, ‘No kissing! No kissing!’ It threw me off and I didn’t know what to do with him. So, I turned around and started kissing the other guy, who I had shot with several times. Then, the second time I shot with him, I went to kiss him and then said, ‘Oh, I’m sorry! You don’t do that.’ And he said, ‘No, that’s alright, you can!’ so maybe it was a comfort level thing with him. So, I love kissing and I love dirty talk.
CJ: Are you submissive or dominant?
Bella: I’m actually a switch. It’s funny, I’ve dominated males and females and I’m only 100 pounds so it’s really funny that is what we found my sexual personality to be! I didn’t know that about myself! I’ve always been aggressive with sex but I didn’t know I was dominant. I laugh, I did a scene with a 6’5” creator, we’re still super great friends, shot with him several times and he’s even spent weekends with us to hang out. Literally, 6’5”, maybe 250, 260, he started gently choking me in a scene then I started choking him. We’re choking each other and it was a really hot scene.
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CJ: Having a petite girl dominate a big guy is just hot!
Bella: I love that! I’m 5 feet even, I’m 100 pounds and I didn’t know it. We had some creators over the other night and it was 3 females (including me) and one male. And we went live on OnlyFans. It’s good for fan engagement and fan retention and they tip us to do shit. And we’re going to do that shit anyways! Let’s do it for them, they love watching, it turns them on and they feel like they know you. One of the females said that she had never done anything with a girl. I told her I won’t do anything to her that she doesn’t do to me first because I don’t want her to be uncomfortable. She said that I can do anything I want with her she just wanted me to know that she was new to this. What’s so funny is that she now tells me that she’s bi! (laughs)
CJ: How often do you masturbate?
Bella: Daily.
CJ: Favorite method?
Bella: I love the Rose. Actually, 2 fans bought me that so I have 2 of them. It’s a vibrator but it’s also a clitoral sucker. It’s amazing. 2 minutes! That’s it! (laughs) I also have a Rabbit. Exxxotica gave me one of those things last year and I love it but I notice the more sex I have, the more stimulation I need so the Rose is amazing because it has the vibrator hits the inner part and the Rose flicker part hits the clit and it gets everything!
CJ: Did you watch porn before you got into the industry?
Bella: Believe it or not, I was not a porn fan! I never was. I masturbated since I was 10 but it was always just to things in my head. After we had kids; we had 3 kids in 5 years so things were dry for just a little bit. (laughs) You’re a little bit tired too then he suggested renting some porn and he said let’s do to each other what we see in the videos. I was game for that but as far as me individually watching porn, I never did until I started doing this.
CJ: When a guy pops, where do you prefer it?
Bella: I always tell them that I don’t care. They can cum on my face, they can cum in my mouth, they can anal creampie me but what really turns me on or gets me off is that they put it where they want it. If it’s going to fuck up their flow to pull out, I have my tubes tied which is beautiful for them. I’m not going to call them in 3 months and be like, ‘Heyyy!’ I literally tell them beforehand, ‘Do what makes you feel the best!’ That’s what’s going to turn me on.
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CJ: Are you a size queen?
Bella: Yes and no. So, I love the bigger dicks but I don’t recall ever having an orgasm with a big dick. In fact, in a lifestyle experience. We swapped with this amazing couple and when he pulled his pants down, I thought, ‘Shit! I am getting the short end of the stick!’ It was like 4 inches and he literally made me cum 4 times in 20 minutes! So, I don’t care. I don’t care how big it is. I know the right answer I’m supposed to say is the bigger the better but if they know what they’re doing with it, they can do magical things. It doesn’t have to be huge!
CJ: Are you going to do anal on camera?
Bella: Definitely. I already have for OnlyFans but for the pro scenes, I will. Actually, I just did anal for the very first time about a year ago and I found out I’m an anal squirt. I don’t squirt but when I’m having anal, that’s when I squirt!
CJ: Do you have any fantasies you would like to live out on-camera?
Bella: I still have not had a gangbang. I want to be blindfolded and I want to be totally helpless, tied up. I had a scene with 3 guys and the guy that organized it said, ‘You’re first gangbang!’ One of the guys said, ‘No, that’s not a gangbang, that’s a foursome. A gangbang has to be at least 4 guys and a female!’ So, I still haven’t had one. That’s still on my bucket list! I’ll probably arrange that this summer. It’s so funny, we do the shoot houses and I make sure my friends are taken care of. ‘You’re getting a gangbang! These 5 guys!’ and then I end up not getting my scenes. So, this year, I’m going to be a little selfish and get what I want but still take care of my people.
CJ: When you go to these parties, is it a particular type of guy that you look for or is it all cocks are welcome?
Bella: For me, it’s all energy. Allll energy. It’s not looks for me. It’s not size, it’s not color, it’s not age. They can be the most attractive, by societal standards, in the room and if they’re acting like a douche bag then, no, I don’t want to play with them. It can be somebody unassuming and just humble and charismatic and complimenting, that’s what wins my heart; a humble spirit that’s just fun to be around.
CJ: Is that the same for women or do you look for a particular type of woman?
Bella: Hmmm. It’s funny because women, it is a looks thing. You just taught me something about myself! I have to like the way she looks. And they have to be sweet and kind. I’m all about women empower. I’m not competitive. I don’t like women that like to one-up themselves to make them feel good about themselves. I don’t like women that put other women down to feel good about themselves. That’s not me at all. She has to be cool and sweet and not be a stuck-up bitch!
CJ: What are you like off-camera? When you have free time, what do you do for fun?
Bella: I love to go to the beach and I love to read. We’re doing a cruise to Europe this summer. I love cruising too! We’re going to Italy and Greece on a boat.
CJ: What’s the wildest or kinkiest thing you’ve ever done in your personal life?
Bella: With the three guys, I did DP with all of them.
CJ: And how can the fans follow you on social media?
Bella: On Twitter, I’m @PetiteProfXXX. OnlyFans is PetiteProfessorXXX. LoyalFans is thepetiteprofessor.
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